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For those believers amongst us;
My wife was diagnosed with breast cancer in July. Prognosis looks good and it was stage 2b. She's also BRCA2 positive and cancer runs in her family.
Gman's wife had a double mastectomy on Wed. of last week. Surgery went great and she came home Thurs. afternoon. The doc put her on a blood thinner due to a DVT that occurred after a surgery years ago. Very early Fri. morning, the wife wakes me up because she's bleeding...a lot. She bled through her shirt and onto the sheets on both sides of her chest. When I look her over, the sutures on the left side have separated. I pack her up and whisk her away to the ER. Long story and a bloody mess short, she goes into surgery again Fri. Surgeon cleans out a large hematoma, puts in a fresh drain, and sews her back up. She's really looking pale after surgery, but isn't anemic enough to qualify for a blood transfusion.
Sat. she is looking better and has some color in her face again. She gets released from the hospital about 8:45pm. She wakes up at 2am Sun. thrashing around and in a panic. She's not sure if she had a bad dream or what, but her heart is pounding. So is mine. She takes some meds and feels a little better. She doesn't really improve on Sun. She feels like her oxygen level is low and her dad takes her to a local Urgent Care this morning. They can't really help her and tell her to go back to Sky Ridge ER. Turns out the wife needs a transfusion after all plus she has an elevated troponin level that indicates she might have some heart muscle damage due to the stress of the low oxygen levels.
She's in the hospital for her 3rd time until they can get her blood chemistry back to normal.
God tells us of the power of prayer and I've seen it work before. Please keep her in your thoughts and prayers.
Thanks.
BPTactical
09-14-2015, 17:07
Your in my thoughts and best wishes to the Mrs.
Think good thoughts her way, and yours, now.
Thoughts and Prayers to your wife.
blacklabel
09-14-2015, 17:19
Prayers sent Gman.
theGinsue
09-14-2015, 17:22
Brother, you've been through the wringer in life and it sounds like Mrs. Gman has too.
You and Mrs. Gman are certainly in my thoughts and prayers. The two of you deserve some blessings.
Let us know if there is anything that we can do to help either of you.
I will pray for both of you.
Our God is an Amazing God.
No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Romans 8:37-39 ESV
Prayers out.
FYI, my mom had a knee replacement about 6 months ago. She was put on heparin blood thinner to prevent blood clots. About a week after surgery she got super sick, barely would talk to us, throwing up a ton, etc. We were in the ER twice in two days. Second time there I told them they were admitting her to the hospital as I figured if I took her home again she would die that night.
Got her checked in the hospital, they were treating her for the symptoms, figuring she was over medicated/whatever. Next day they call to tell me her triponin level is elevated and she may have had a heart attack while under anesthesia. So that brings on a whole new slew of docs and tests.
Some resident there decides to test her for HIT. Heparin Induced Thrombocytopenia. (??) I'm sure that's spelled completely wrong, but basically it's an allergic reaction to her heparin. Yep, she's 1 in a million people who is allergic to heparin, and it almost killed her.
Figured I might share that, given your wife's similarities to my moms situation. Couldn't hurt to ask about it.
Hope she gets well soon!
sellersm
09-14-2015, 17:52
You got it! Keep us posted...
Good thoughts headed your way..
HoneyBadger
09-14-2015, 17:56
The HBs will keep you and your wife in our prayers UFN.
Thoughts and wishes to you and your wife. Get well soon.
Great-Kazoo
09-14-2015, 18:09
Prayers & positive thought s for you & your wife.
If you need blood donations tell us where and who it's for.
StagLefty
09-14-2015, 18:50
Comfort and healing prayers for both of you.
Prayers out to you both GMAN.
Prayers and well wishes sent, if you need anything just call!
Postive thoughts, vibes and everything else headed your and Mrs. GMANs way bro.
buffalobo
09-14-2015, 19:16
Prayers and healing wishes for your wife and family.
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Prayers headed your way.
My wife is O- and is happy to donate if needed.
fairrpe86
09-14-2015, 19:34
Prayers and comfort for you and the wife.
jerrymrc
09-14-2015, 20:21
Prayers Sent. You and yours will be in our thoughts tonight.[Flower]
Thoughts and prayers for your wife and your family!!
killianak9
09-14-2015, 20:28
Thoughts and prayers [emoji120]🏻
Please keep us posted and let us know if you need anything!
Big Wall
09-14-2015, 20:34
She in our thoughts.
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My thoughts and prayers to you.
You and yours are in our thoughts and prayers.
pickenup
09-14-2015, 21:18
Best sent from here.
Fentonite
09-14-2015, 21:23
We're in your corner. Best to you both, and to those caring for your wife.
gnihcraes
09-14-2015, 21:27
Positive thoughts and well wishes to both of you.
Prayers and good vibes to your loved one and you.
Prayers going out for the both of you
68Charger
09-14-2015, 22:09
Prayers for you and Mrs. Gman... do not lose hope, he is the great physician that can heal through vast distance and circumstance.
Don't hesitate to call upon others for what seems like petty needs (like bringing you food, etc).
I wish I was closer, but if there's anything we can do let us know...
Tinelement
09-14-2015, 22:11
6 Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.”
Deuteronomy 31:6
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Just got back from the hospital and got caught up here. Thank you so much. This community is the bestest. My faith is unwavering and sustains me.
The wife was finally getting a unit of blood in her shoulder just before I left. Just about every vein in her arms and hands has been tapped out. They even tried her foot the other day. We're hoping that they'll be able to put in the port tomorrow that will eventually be used for her chemo because it can be used for blood draws, transfusions, you name it. The paperwork was still being kicked around and a debate of a PICC line vs. the port. I sure hope it's the port since there's a reduced opportunity for infection and isn't as temporary.
The cardiac Dr. came in just before we left and they're pretty confident that her heart was just stressed due to the extra work needed and inadequate oxygen levels and not damaged permanently, but they want to get some echocardiogram views to make sure.
She'll probably be in for a couple of days to make sure she's good-to-go the next time she comes home.
If you've never read it before, John MacArthur's book Anxious for Nothing (http://www.amazon.com/Anxious-Nothing-Cares-Macarthur-Study-ebook/dp/B006VWR4QO/ref=sr_1_6?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1442291394&sr=1-6&keywords=john+macarthur+books) can really help in times like this (not an endorsement for Amazon, just linking for the info).
Gman,,keep the faith,,its hard I know.
Don't post about my problems,, lost my wife to cancer 15 yrs ago.
Thoughts and prayers,,sent.
Her hematocrit numbers are even lower this morning after the unit of blood. They're going to put more blood into her, but she's apparently leaking somewhere, but it doesn't appear to be from the surgical site since her drains are looking really good. Crazy stuff.
Prayers for your wife and you are sent!
Lex_Luthor
09-15-2015, 08:19
Prayers for you and your wife Gman.
You have my thoughts and prayers!
Prayers sent my friend. Stay strong.
From Z to G ... All our prayers. The not-understanding is where faith pulls us through.
Rob
sellersm
09-15-2015, 09:42
Her hematocrit numbers are even lower this morning after the unit of blood. They're going to put more blood into her, but she's apparently leaking somewhere, but it doesn't appear to be from the surgical site since her drains are looking really good. Crazy stuff.
Our Lord Jesus knows exactly where, and I'm asking Him to reveal this to you and the Doctors... God is our healer and our deliverer! Will continue to petition the Throne of Grace on your behalf.
Got some positive news this morning. Her surgeon doesn't believe that she has a bleed based on all of the information. The lower numbers are likely due to her body using the newly infused cells to repair damage that was already done and her body is 'normalizing'. They were able to put in her port, so they're able to give her a second unit this morning at a much quicker rate. They're doing the echocardiogram now and she has a heart and it's beating. I hope to know more details soon.
We're staying strong and it's great to have you supportive folks behind us!
mackbamf
09-15-2015, 12:12
Sending positive thoughts and well wishes to both of you...
I'm late to this thread, but I'm sending healing thoughts and prayers. I'm close by should you need anything!
Not late at all. There's still progress to be made. [Thanks]
Gcompact30
09-15-2015, 17:55
Prayers sent brother
You both will be in my thoughts and prayers
My thoughts are with you and your wife. Wishing for a fast recovery and that all turns out the best.
After 2 units of blood today, she's off IV fluids and feeling better. They'll be keeping a close eye on her chemistry through the night and tomorrow. Thanks folks. Progress is good.
After 2 units of blood today, she's off IV fluids and feeling better. They'll be keeping a close eye on her chemistry through the night and tomorrow. Thanks folks. Progress is good.
Glad to hear of some positive progress. Prayers still coming your way.
sellersm
09-15-2015, 22:28
After 2 units of blood today, she's off IV fluids and feeling better. They'll be keeping a close eye on her chemistry through the night and tomorrow. Thanks folks. Progress is good.
Thank you Jesus! Will keep her before The Throne...
Not a believer but...
Holy shit Gman!
Best thoughts for Mrs. Gman. I can't imagine what you two are going through. Sincerely hope the roller coaster levels out and improves.
Praying for the both of you.
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Lots of testing today. Echocardiogram done yesterday looks good. Don't have results for a V/Q scan done this morning checking for any pulmonary embolisms. Hematocrit numbers are up...down...up...which isn't unexpected after the transfusions.
I hope she gets to come home soon...but not too soon.
Aardvark
09-16-2015, 17:08
Prayers outbound. Been doing a lot of praying this month: a lady friend at work is starting chemo, plus two deaths of friends fm work, and one other fm the accident near base.
wctriumph
09-16-2015, 20:28
Prayers on the way up.
Thank you sooo much folks! The wife is finally home again and is feeling much better. Her V/Q scan was negative, so no pulmonary embolisms. She'll just need a little O2 when she sleeps at night.
You guys are great and our God is an awesome God!
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That's AWESOME news!
Great-Kazoo
09-17-2015, 17:23
Thank you sooo much folks! The wife is finally home again and is feeling much better. Her V/Q scan was negative, so no pulmonary embolisms. She'll just need a little O2 when she sleeps at night.
You guys are great and our God is an awesome God!
Good News. Doesn't mean we should take you off prayer list .
sellersm
09-17-2015, 20:00
Amen! +1 to what Kazoo said.
nogaroheli
09-17-2015, 20:14
Prayers for a speedy and full recovery sent.
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