View Full Version : Had to say Goodbye to a dear friend today...
BPTactical
07-06-2011, 21:31
After 18+ years of loyal companionship the day of days came for my Huey kitty. We knew the day was drawing near but wished it hadn't. He lead a great life, my wife found him at Hugh M Woods when she worked there, shared an Arbys sandwich with him and that was it. He instantly bonded with me and when I worked nights he would crawl up under my arm while I would sleep, purring the whole time to the point he would wake me. He was declawed but still liked to use my boots and shoes as a scratching post and loved it, all I had to say was:"Shoes" and he would come running and start tugging and pulling on my laces. Tough old guy, he battled a racoon and as tore up as he was he purred the whole time while heading to the vet. Always in the way when I tried to read something, he felt it was more important to plop on whatever I was reading than for me to read it.
The last year he started showing his age and lost weight quickly but he was basically healthy. But the last few months he started to show some real signs of dementia and the poor guy would walk into the living room with a bewildered look and just walk in circles and yowl like he was lost. You could see a look of fear and confusion in him and he deserved better than that. A couple of times our big dog kind of snapped at him and we were concerned he might go after him. We couldn't bear that thought so we knew the best thing was to put him at rest.
I cried like a baby on the way to the vet(and still am) and God Bless him he still purred the whole way. Stopped on the way and got him an Arby's sandwich.
He was happy.
He went to sleep in my arms and gave me a last look and nuzzle as to say "It's OK Daddy"
Laid him to rest under his favorite tree facing west, that way the afternoon sunshine is always in his face.
Rest in Peace my dear friend and companion.
Sure gonna miss him..............................
My Huey:
http://i165.photobucket.com/albums/u69/hockeysew/IMG_3111.jpg
Never an easy thing man.. never.
Stupid allergies.
Im very sorry to hear this Bert.
+1 on those damn allergies!!
Fentonite
07-06-2011, 21:36
Bert, I'm really sorry. It's amazing how we bond to or four-legged kids. Again, sorry for your loss.
Bummer- sorry to hear this.
Maybe get a new friend in a few weeks. Lots of animals need good homes.
Bailey Guns
07-06-2011, 21:41
Sorry for your loss, BP. It sucks. I know.
I'm so sorry for your loss. +1 on the damn allergies makin my eyes water...
Both of our girls (shihtzus) are rescues. I've decided that when I die, I wanna come back as one of our furkids...
Many of the happiest moments in my life have been with my pets. I am happy for you and Mr. Huey, that you shared so much and you were both better for that.
Love is never wasted.[Flower]
Did you have to make your story so sad? I think the Arby's sandwich pushed me over the edge.
CMP_5.56
07-06-2011, 23:20
Sorry to hear that Bert. I know how tough that is. It's only been four months since I had to put down my best friend.
+1 on those allergies. Must be the cottonwood.
Byte Stryke
07-06-2011, 23:22
I am sorry to hear this Bert.
My deepest Condolences.
Big Wall
07-06-2011, 23:29
Sorry for your loss. Rest in peace Huey.
Damn bert im sorry man. I know how painfull it is and it never gets easy to make that trip. For what its worth and coming from a person that give his animals the unconditional love that they give me, you did the right thing. Its never an easy choice but its never good to have them suffer. If you need anything let me know.
islandermyk
07-07-2011, 00:03
You are truly a good man with a good heart. R.I.P. Huey and God Bless..
theGinsue
07-07-2011, 00:34
Bert - I'm terribly sorry to hear of your loss. Some folks just can't understand that our pets, at least some of them, are more than just "animals". They are our family and our closest friends. My heart hurts so much for you right now as I know exactly what you are going through. I won't take away from your loss by telling you of my losses. They're mine and healing is ongoing.
Huey was a beautiful cat and sounds like a fun buddy to share in your life. It's hard now, but hold onto the wonderful memories you have of your time with Huey - they will become more treasured each day, week and year that passes.
It seems so little, but I offer up to you and your family my thoughts and prayers. God bless you my friend!
bellavite1
07-07-2011, 04:49
Sorry Bert.
You did the right thing.
A hug.
Luigi.
My condolences Bert, I dread losing one of my Beagle girls.
StagLefty
07-07-2011, 07:43
Sorry for your loss Bert-I can tell by your post that it was a painful time.
damn bert , sorry to here about your loss .wish i could do something to ease the pain .our prayers and thoughts are with you .
Bert, I'm so sorry about your pal, our pets are so much like family and it's no different when they have to leave us. You're in my thoughts and prayers.
n8tive97
07-07-2011, 08:57
Sorry to hear about your loss.
I have a Cairn Terrier that my daughter had to have, because she wanted a Toto dog when she was 5 yo. I spent $500 on that dog 5 years ago and bitched the whole time! That dog has chewed up by blinds on the windows, countless numbers of shoes, my bag strap on my golf bag and some carpet in the basement, not to mention the drip system.
This dog (my buddy) was here when my twin boys were born in 2008 and was the reason my daughter has gotten over her fear of all dogs.
Tobe, my buddy has become such a valued member of my family, that when I read your story, those damn allergies were bad in my office reading your story and thinking about Tobe.
I am not looking forward to the day at all when I have to cross that bridge.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!
Sorry for your loss. I hate that our critters go too soon.
ghettodub
07-07-2011, 08:59
Bummer man, sorry to hear about your loss. The loss of pets is always brutal...
funkfool
07-07-2011, 09:14
I understand competely. I am sorry for your loss.
Lord, you have embraced a good friend and loving companion. While we mourn what we have lost, we do celebrate what we had... and in saying goodbye, we renew our pledge to love and care for any creature you entrust to us for its time of life. Thank you, Lord, for the joy this loved one gave us and for making it possible for us to have made this friend's life a good one.
So sorry for your loss. They are such a big part of our lives.
Sorry for your loss... We had to put our Golden Retriever, Bella, down last week due to a pre-cancerous lump next to her heart that was hemorrhaging. Sometimes pets really are better than people, and they act more human than we'd like to admit.
Sorry for your loss... We had to put our Golden Retriever, Bella, down last week due to a pre-cancerous lump next to her heart that was hemorrhaging. Sometimes pets really are better than people, and they act more human than we'd like to admit.
Sorry to hear that man. We had to put our little girl down a couple months ago also due to cancer and it was rough on both of us. I still miss her every day.
Sorry to hear that man. We had to put our little girl down a couple months ago also due to cancer and it was rough on both of us. I still miss her every day.
Thanks, yeah I think the worst part is the fact that Bear, our other dog, is all alone now. So we have been giving him the combined affection and love that we would have shared with 2. He woke me up this morning howling and crying.
BPTactical
07-07-2011, 10:59
I wanted to say Thanks to all. I really needed an avenue to vent and the kind words help. Nice to know somebody has your back.
Thanks again
This morning was rough, setting out the morning vittles for 3 instead of 4. His brothers looking around wondering where the "Old Man" was and his main pal looked around outside after eating for him (they would sit on the porch together and watch the birds).
Mornings he would always come in after sitting on the porch and get a drink from the bathroom sink-He didn't care if you were shaving/brushing your teeth, he would stick his head under the faucet and lap up a drink and if you left a trickle running he would let the water run over his head and then look at you like "Asshole" and then shake his head and get the water everywhere. Then he would go into the bedroom and plop on my wifes lap while she put on her make up. Mama said she couldn't put her make up on this morning without her eyes welling up and leaking. Mine too, both of us look like hell.
I am sure we will get used to him being gone, I just hope not too soon.
They say the hurt you feel is the price you pay for the love. I never realized he was loved that much...........
Thanks, yeah I think the worst part is the fact that Bear, our other dog, is all alone now. So we have been giving him the combined affection and love that we would have shared with 2. He woke me up this morning howling and crying.
Awe, poor little fella. Our other dog Koby took it pretty well considering how close they were. We read some books/pamphlets on canine loss which we think really helped him. I was surprised to read some of the things they experience as it's stuff I never would have thought of. He also gets 2x the love and affection now which we like to think has helped him through this. I've been taking him on more walks since it happened which is good for both of us. I feel he and I have a tighter bond now than we had before because before he was mom's shadow and Gixxer was daddy's girl so Koby and I are getting to know each other all over again.
jplove71
07-07-2011, 13:12
Such a beautiful cat. So sorry for your loss. My cat, Michaela, is fast approaching 16 years of having been my owner and I know her time is coming. It will be a very sad day when I have to let her go.
Such a beautiful cat. So sorry for your loss. My cat, Michaela, is fast approaching 16 years of having been my owner and I know her time is coming. It will be a very sad day when I have to let her go.
I'm in the same boat, our cat, Sunday, who we inherited from my cousin when she moved to where cats weren't allowed, is also 16.
Cats are a different kind of situation than dogs. Not saying either is better, as I own both, but dogs love regardless and form deep bonds, cats you have to kind of work at to be really good friends, and either the loss is tough when you have a furry, 4-legged companion that goes to doggy/kitty heaven. It's sad but true that they don't live as long as we all wish, but in the end their friendship and love is worth it!
BPTactical
07-07-2011, 13:58
You own a dog.
A cat chooses you as a member of their tending staff............
jerrymrc
07-07-2011, 15:42
I feel for ya. I have lost a couple at 15-17 years. This is the one that hurt the most. He was a stray that was 3-4 when I got him. He was with me 16 years. I now have another that people think is the same one.
Most dog like cat I have ever known. Old style Balinese. http://i884.photobucket.com/albums/ac44/jerrymrc/oldgroup128Small.jpg
Aw man, sorry to hear that Bert.
Byte Stryke
07-07-2011, 17:17
I woke up one day in 2005 and my best friend never came home
http://i1092.photobucket.com/albums/i410/Guy_Bennett/100_0128-1.jpg
Salem
2003-2005
DSB OUTDOORS
07-07-2011, 19:35
Sorry for you're loss Bert! I have a dog and I'm 95% sure she will be my last. I can't take that heart break any more. [Beer]
AirbornePathogen
07-07-2011, 20:13
Sorry for your loss man. I've lost a couple myself, it does get easier. Pic attached of my current furry friend, Murphy (2008-)
Dusty Johnson
07-07-2011, 23:13
My thoughts are with you.. I can't imagine the pain you are feeling, I know when smokey (my cat) passes I will be crushed. I don't consider my pets animals, I consider them family.
You own a dog.
A cat chooses you as a member of their tending staff............
Funny, some cats seem to just up and decide to leave one day. Had some friends whose cat did that, just left. Then he came back about 5 years later. We had one do that too, just split. Then one night several months later, I spotted him cruising across the back yard. Gathered him up, he stayed around for awhile, then boogied again. Strange critters.
I really did not need to cry at work today. Not so much my style.
Too close to my heart with a cat, nay, Angel, that adopted me and my wife. We had to send her off a couple of years ago before the renal failure caused here to go into convulsions.
I miss her.
I am sorry for your loss.
Seamonkey
07-09-2011, 09:23
Sorry to hear about your loss
COAR-15 donated to IMHS today in memory of Huey...
http://i140.photobucket.com/albums/r14/cunroe/don1.jpg
http://i140.photobucket.com/albums/r14/cunroe/don2.jpg
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COAR-15 donated to IMHS today in memory of Huey...
http://i140.photobucket.com/albums/r14/cunroe/don1.jpg
http://i140.photobucket.com/albums/r14/cunroe/don2.jpg
http://i140.photobucket.com/albums/r14/cunroe/don3.jpg
Right on! [Beer]
rockhound
07-09-2011, 13:06
Been there, sorry to hear it
sneakerd
07-09-2011, 14:16
For those of us without kids, our animals are our kids. We name them, we feed them, we clean up after them, we talk to them, we call them, we cuddle with them. The temporary emptiness after loss is just that- temporary. Time heals all wounds. Depending on your situation, it just gives many of us the opportunity to adopt another, caring for it just as we cared for the last. [Weight]
Sorry to here about your loss. We just did that same thing about a year ago. Pets are great. Got a dog and another cat to help with the grief. Both rescues.
BPTactical
07-10-2011, 16:32
I can't thank all again enough. Your kind words and thoughts have made the tough moments easier.
Thanks to all again[Beer]
Sure do miss him.
Cebu- You my friend are a Gentleman of the highest order. I have no words that can ever express our deepest gratitude for your kind act. Huey was definitley worthy of such a gesture as he was a kind and gentle soul.
I thought I could make it through yesterday without my eyes getting all hot and my vision all blurry.
I was wrong...............
Thank You again.
Sure do miss him............................
Wow......I have had to live through a few of my best friends passing away. It is never easy. It almost makes me not want to get close to another animal (family member) It is unreal how much love there is! Heart breaking for sure.
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