Originally Posted by
Vitesse304
If your car loan is around 3-5%, stop paying extra and put that money aside for your down payment. Even though you don't need to have a down payment for your VA loan, anything you put towards it will help in lowering your monthly payment. Just keep in mind that 4% of $275K is going to be more than 4% of a $15K car note. So you're going to want to lower the loan which will accrue the most interest.
If a home is what you are betting on within the next couple of months, then focus on getting more money for that since you are already able to put money into your saving and more towards your car payment.
As for earnest money and closing, don't bet on the owner paying or even splitting it with you. It's a sellers market right now.
In all honesty, I would wait...keep socking money away and wait. Anything in the sub $300K range will be over valued and overpaid for. Don't get caught in the trap of wanting a home now. A home is an investment and you need to buy right with your investments otherwise you'll be upside down or paying for a pit.
Keep saving, build up a good down payment or pay down the car and wait. Home ownership ain't all it's cracked up to be...your rent might be $1K a month, but once you own your home, the mortgage, home maintenance, taxes, utilities, etc will add up and could cost you more in the long term.