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So I'm taking out this gal this weekend that I'm really into. Known her for years and we both just realized what's been there the whole time. I need a good awesome date, this will be #3. I'm looking for after dinner activities where we can just shoot the breeze. So the range is out(although she does want me to take her, she's pro 2a!) Just wanna be able to talk and have fun with few distraction s. I'm horrible at planning dates.
Do the aquarium dude. Good chance to talk and walk. Plus awkward silence is droned out by the fishers.[Beer]
Gunshow and dinner
I hate to say it, but do your dinner at the Tea House in Boulder, then go onto Pearl street mall and pick a restaurant with the outdoor tables so you can talk and people watch over a glass of wine.
You don't need to impress her
You need to be in charge.
You have a plan to go somewhere and she can come along, or not.
don't give her options
"well, do you want to do this?"
instead try "Let's go do this." (notice there is no question, it's just a statement, she can choose to come along or not)
Be in charge.
whatever women tell you they want is wrong. Women don't have a fucking clue what they want. Women want an alpha male, be that alpha male for them. Don't be wishy washy, be in charge. Dress nice, look nice and have a plan and go for it. You don't have to be a dick or a dictator to be in charge.
Look up "game" on the manosphere.
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This is good info here! Women are turned off by making decisions, they want you to make the decision. Some women are opposite and they will say they would rather go "here" instead, and thats even better because if that sucks its their fault [Beer]
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Dude,,,,,the aquarium. Epic Win. Thanks man
Gunshow damn straight! We talked guns on our last date, chick knows more than I do![ROFL2]
And yup your right about taking charge. This is the first time I've had anything other than one nighters (and not many of those) since I started working graveyard 3 years ago. Just a bit rusty, Ill get it all blown out though[Beer] just needed an awesome place to go!
EDIT: just realized how that looked. Shoulda said worked out not blown out!
Just dont confuse "decisive" and "confident" with "ego-maniacal douche-bag"
I thought we'd go to (restaurant name) and a Show at (Place) and follow it up with some quality time.
or
I thought I'd feed you, F*** you and then you could wash my clothes
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What about the dishes? [Beer]Quote:
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I was wondering about having her clean the bathroom myself....Quote:
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VERY sound advice!Quote:
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So how old are you and said girl? Where does she live? Out here in Aurora?
Is she adventurous?
I ask cause there is a pretty fun indoor go-kart place down by dove valley. It's great for all ages.
Might be a good 'time killer' after the aquarium, and to get her closer to home after dinner..
Take her to the range after breakfast.... Just sayin [Coffee]Quote:
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The Boulder Cafe has some great deals before 6pm and an outside seating area. You can have a bite, a glass of wine, watch the freaks go bye, maybe even be treated to a street performer. When done take a short 7 minute drive up Canyon, turn Right on Sugarloaf, about a mile up there is a place to park at Betasso trail head. It's a beautiful loop walk about 2 miles takes maybe 45 minutes depending on your pace. Will be a wonderful place for "get to know her moments".
Enjoy
I can't believe nobody suggested taking her to Casa Bonita. [Dunno]
/ cartman voice
Casa bonita case bonita oh sweet black barts cave ooohh cliff divers
Oh yea casna no-eata this way you can have quality time while you hold her hair back while she pukes up that fantastic meal!
On the second date, after you've had a chance to get to know her a little. Take her to a comedy club, if she talks during the show, dump her stupid ass.
OK heres the test if you know shes a good girl...
Open the car door for her making sure your door is locked, if she reaches over to unlock your door she is a keeper, if not she is selfish and you need not bother with her.
Not a direct qoute but close...anyone name that movie?
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Ironically, I can.
it's A Bronx Tale.
it's ironic because I've never seen the movie, just that scene.
LMAO Nice!
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added it to netfix queue.
a Bronx TaleQuote:
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what did I win?
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You win the 2nd place trophy![Coffee]Quote:
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somebody had to work all day to pay for the millions on welfare.Quote:
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Monkey slap!!Quote:
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Take her to dinner at the Melting Pot. It's more of an event, really, and will not only provide a first-rate meal but lots of time for talking in between courses.
[LOL] Nice!Quote:
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So I guess I'm the only one curious... how did it go? Will there be a 4th date? And where did you end up taking her?
Well he hasn't been back on.. ssoooooo...
Either it went well.. really really well...
Or Kathy Bates 'Misery' style.. [ROFL1]