Yeah. I feel that FTF was part of the deal, if he didn't want to do it, then I'm not doing the deal. I think its insane to allow people to leverage a rule to force people to buy.
I say I'm buying something, I say I sent the money, a week goes by and no money shows up: okay, that's welching. Making the words "I'll take it" a binding contact is ludicrous.
So what happened if the item is not as described and so on?
Just imagine you're the seller. You need to sell the rail to fix your truck. Some guy says he'll take it but backs out because his truck is also broken.
Posting an "I'll take it" is taken seriously by a lot of people. It's some sort of internet mojo handshake. If you don't have the cash, don't type the words.
There are a lot of hot heads on some of the boards. I'm a mod on another forum and I've only ever banned spammers. Ya gotta be a real douche to get the ban hammer.
im glad i found this place, i havent been back since