My Father told me something...
and for those in the know, this isn't easy

a Marriage is about responsibility.
you are responsible to your word, you made a promise, you are responsible.
You are responsible for your share, you are a team. Do your part.
You are responsible for your wife, She has given you everything she is, don't abuse it or neglect it.
you are responsible for your self, the irresponsible decisions you make are yours forever.


there was more, but something in my eye.