My mother, in her late 60's, is looking for a safe, reliable firearm that won't be hell with her arthritis. I suggested a Glock 9mm, but then realized that racking the slide would likely be too hard for her to do in a critical situation (as she would not be comfortable keeping the Glock stored with a round in the chamber). The local shop recommended a lightweight titanium .38 revolver. This might be a good solution, but I worry the weight of the double-action pull might be a little too much for her. The kick from a snub-nose (even a .38) might also be more than she can handle reliably with follow-up shots in an emergency.
So, I'm looking for suggestions. Currently, I've moved towards recommending the DA/SA Ruger type pistols. The first pull is a heavier double-action pull, with the remainder of the magazine feeds receiving a single-action pull.
Any other ideas would be appreciated.