You don't just kick in doors. You make yourself so annoying that they feel compelled to humor you and don't go away until then. Now, if there is some damn good, and it better be damn good, reason to kick in the door, then of course you do. Just showing up to a possible DV with someone not wanting you to come inside is NOT enough to kick in the doors.

We don't know what the initial call was and we don't know what the cops heard coming up to the house. I got to be present when a few officers busted in a door over a possible DV, but that's because of how the call came out from dispatch. Need more info.