http://www.cobar.org/index.cfm/ID/21062
Domestic violence can include: (Source SD)
Physical Violence
- pushing, shoving, slapping, biting, kicking, choking, pinching, pulling hair, hitting, grabbing, beating
- stabbing, shooting
- purposely locking out of the house
- abandoning in dangerous places
- throwing objects
- destruction of property
- subjecting to reckless driving
- threatening with a weapon
- refusing victim help while sick or pregnant
- any physical restraint
- purposely cutting off victim’s hair
- use of any object to inflict pain, punishment, or to intimidate
Sexual Abuse
- telling anti-women, homophobic jokes to humiliate, embarrass, intimidate, or hurt
- forcing sex
- rape
- unwanted fondling and touching
- ritual abuse
- sexual innuendos
- accusation of promiscuity or infidelity
- forcing victim to dress in a more sexual way than is comfortable for her/him
- forcing victim to strip or perform other sexual acts
- forcing sex while others watch, or with objects, or after beatings
- using sex to bargain or withhold for punishment or manipulation
Emotional Abuse
- ignoring emotionally
- yelling at for small actions
- calling victim names, using put downs, demeaning
- constantly over-criticizing or telling victim she/he is fat, ugly, stupid
- telling victim she/he cannot do certain things well
- threatening
- harassing
- isolating from friends and family, forbidding to socialize, drive, work, or make certain decisions
- threatening suicide or homicide
- threatening abandonment, kidnapping of children, calling social services or law enforcement, outing, hurting family, friends, and/or pets
- manipulating with lies and contradictions
- punishing by withholding affection or appreciation
- not encouraging victim to build self-esteem
- little or no communication
- blaming
- humiliating in public or private
- stalking
- setting time limits
- preventing victim from leaving the house
- disconnecting the phone
- hiding the car keys
- preventing victim from going to a place of worship or from praying
- abusing a pet
- destroying victim's treasures
Economic Abuse
- taking all the money from a joint account
- stealing joint property or possessions
- withholding money
- forbidding victim to work
- forcing victim to ask for money
- not allowing access to any financial documents
- not allowing any input into financial decisions
- not allowing any control over or access to money, financial statements, and documents
- requiring receipts and exact change for financial transactions
- ruining victim’s credit
- forcing victim to work while partner refuses to
- requiring victim to turn over every paycheck to partner
- preventing victim from getting or keeping a job (including not providing agreed upon childcare or transportation, or destroying work clothes/uniforms)
- harassing victim at work
- refusing to pay child support
A lot of that seems like hogwash but I don't know. That's just what a quick search produced.