Funny Story Now...If your wife throws a fuckin hairbrush at you and you say what the fuck is your problem (Intimidation), wife denies the hairbrush... add alcohol on my part (really that was the end of the story).. End of report... and the neihbor hears the hair brush hitting the wall (apartment)...Your fucked.... and another period.
Bottom line, marry carefully and if you drink avoid, hide from everyone if they at the time don't care for you... and thank god I was in the military... We are still married 18 years later... Single incident.. I still love the snot.