I spent a few days in Steamboat recently. I like the place, but it's sure turning into a busy, tourist-filled place these days. Living in Loveland essentially my whole life, it reminded me of Estes Park in the summer. Filled with tourists and overpriced marginal food.
I drove to and from Steamboat via Trail Ridge road. As I passed through the Grand Lake area, I wondered if it might be just the kind of place you're describing... Quiet, nice views, somewhat secluded, but still close enough to find a decent place for dinner.
Anybody have any experience with Grand Lake?