^^^^^BAN HIM!!!!
jk...but I disagree with your disagree. Doctors are not my parents, counselors, etc etc. Baby goes in with a rash, doctor can ask what might have caused rash. Baby goes in and is a little heavy or light for that age, doctor can ask about a diet. If mom is having some postpartum issues, then and maybe then, the doctor could advise the spouse on those matters. Doctor doesn't need to know about my security system, if I lock my deadbolt, or how I protect my family. Doctors can have a god complex all they want but that doesn't make them all knowing.
BTW-I don't have kids.
As for OP....send her to her room without dinner! (good luck with that)