Put the propane heater at either end of the deck and a mass of candles on a table in the middle -- heat AND ambience ... :P

Seriously, you can probably get away with one of those raised firepits, especially if you put some brick underneath to keep direct heat off the timbers.

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I like this one from the Colony House:
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