The tradition is plenty weakened by centuries of divorce. The problem might be in your marriage if it's so fragile as to not survive a different person's marriage desire.
I don't think there has been a problem with divorce for centuries. I think that's more of a modern thing. It's a problem, I'll agree. As far as the second part of your statement, I'd say it was nonsense but I have no idea what it means.
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