Quote Originally Posted by Great-Kazoo View Post
So the DUI chick is going to move in. Regarding the wording of the sub-lease. WHY NOT make sure there is a fail safe to avoid a drama drawn scene, because she had ANOTHER relapse (oh i am sorry please give me a chance) smashed up the boyfriends room. Unless the 2 guys want to have local LE remove her (unlikely) What recourse do they / he have to get this time bomb off the premises ?

In regard to his firearms and other acc. IF as in an early post as the OP inquired. There is a need to remove said items. WHY THE HELL IS SHE EVEN ALLOWED TO LIVE THERE? I know the OP is looking for another place. Until then, why have that much more of an uncomfortable living scene than needed? Why put the OP's accessibility of personal protection out of reach, to prevent Ms DUI from getting them.
Curious, will there be access to alcohol in the dwelling? Not talking beer, wine, vodka. I'm talking mouth wash, furniture polish, cooking wines etc. Unless there is going to be a complete limit to anything harmful, the removal of guns, is meaningless.
Having dealt with ALCOHOLICS (which this woman is) one would be surprised what lengths they go to for a buzz.
This isn't so much about compromising as it is protecting one's personal interests and in this case, one's right. It doesn't have to be a firearm collection, even if it was anything I would hold of value, it's in my best interest to make sure it's safe. I'm not making way for a parolee, because that person is a parolee, I'm not going have any trust in them. My motivation is to keep myself out of harm's way, whether that be judicial and/or physical. Again it's in my best personal interest. Since this potentially involves law enforcement, why mix yourself up in roommate drama when as a 3rd person individual can be almost avoided in every circumstance. There's no point in concerning ones self in what happens to a relationship that they're not even part of. Especially since OP has notion to move out anyway, moving out will just be much simpler when you have less stuff to move. Again, that is just my mindset. I'm not making concessions, I'm not giving up my rights, I'm not compromising my personal beliefs. This simply is drama that could get potentially worse and if one doesn't need to get involved. I sure as hell would opt out faster than anything on this planet.