Number of children

[HoneyBadger]

HB Jr is 19 months old now (It's going by so fast!!) and we're starting to talk about baby #2, but things are on hold for a few months due to some potential changes from my job. Mrs. HB married me knowing that I want at least 3 kids. We'll see where life and God take us.

3 here and I cheated my wife out of more (snip). I thought at the time I was doing the right thing, but have learned over time, mostly because I am incredibly dense and a bit on the slow side of the thinking curve, that our family should have been bigger. Maybe five or six would have been good, but deciding the number on my own was wrong and I will forever be sorry for that piece of arrogance.

I hope you and your wife continue to discuss the issue and that you will be open to loving all of your children, no matter how many you have. God Bless you and your family.

Be safe.

This is a fantastic response. I think I've said this before (recently) but your wisdom is overwhelming cstone!

Enough for what? The revolution? To build Noah's Ark 2.0? To form a family band and tour the countryside?

And by the way, I call absolute undeniable bullshit on this...two is plenty. I enjoy things like sanity and knowing that by the time I'm 45 I will have an empty nest. To each their own obviously though.

Wow. I'm sorry you feel that way.