3 here and I cheated my wife out of more (snip). I thought at the time I was doing the right thing, but have learned over time, mostly because I am incredibly dense and a bit on the slow side of the thinking curve, that our family should have been bigger. Maybe five or six would have been good, but deciding the number on my own was wrong and I will forever be sorry for that piece of arrogance.

I hope you and your wife continue to discuss the issue and that you will be open to loving all of your children, no matter how many you have. God Bless you and your family.

Be safe.