Send it or not?

[ray1970]

If it helps your situation any, you can tell your wife I said to "quit being catty".

When women aren't getting along with another woman they can be down right brutal. They will even go out of their way to keep the fight going. It's always baffled me how such sweet, beautiful creatures can be so mean and spiteful.

[StagLefty]

Healthier if she let's it go-nothing good will come of it.

[vossman]

I'll have to wait and see what she thinks tomorrow. I am currently being treated to silent mode.

[cstone]

They were sisters before you married one of them.

Do you need to be between them?

Don't start no trouble and there won't be no trouble.

My $.02 and worth exactly what you paid for it.

[Great-Kazoo]

For a sizable donation to a charity of your choice. I'd be happy to deliver it as a singing telegram.



It's 4th and down, they say punt
I doubt she meant to call you a ............ .


FWIW: NO ONE has title to most dysfunctional family, We all do.

[Bailey Guns]

I'm gonna go against the grain. I say, if it's from her heart, send it. She may be putting things down on paper she can't put into spoken words. She may realize a lot of relief from getting what she needs to say off her chest. What her sister does with it is up to her. Too many times things go unsaid and it results in a lifetime of resentment. Getting things out in the open oftentimes starts the healing. Letting them fester never does.

[cstone]

For a sizable donation to a charity of your choice. I'd be happy to deliver it as a singing telegram.


It's 4th and down, they say punt
I doubt she meant to call you a .............

Popping out of a cake in a swim suit or tap dancing door man outfit?

[Great-Kazoo]

Popping out of a cake in a swim suit or tap dancing door man outfit?

[jslo]

My wife went through the same issues about 6 years ago. Went back to take care of her mother who was supposedly dying, she was in the medical field. After 3 months she came home to "visit" for a week. While home her sister and mother accused my wife of stealing $10,000 out of her safe. They ended up turning another sister and brother against my wife. Sent my wife over the edge causing her to be institutionalized for a month. Turns out the sister was the one that took the money along with giving her kids the mothers credit cards and as far as I know still has a restraint order against her. Her therapist, which she still sees, told her it was alright to send a letter explaining how she feels about what they've done to her as long as she has no expectations of an apology or acknowledgement that they did anything wrong. She wrote the letter almost five years ago. Hasn't been mailed.

[pickenup]

Thumper, What did your father tell you this morning?

Then again, some people are SOOOOO stupid/bad, that they NEED to be told.