A note engraved on a bench in the cemetery where my grand father Is buried says. " here i sat but now I'm gone I left my name to carry on, those who knew it knew me well, those who didn't can go to he!!".
For me I hope to be remembered as someone that did what he could when prob arose, as a good friend, son, father, and husband. There are those that will be happy to see me go, but they are the ones that got in the way of the list above. So frankly I don't see them as a loss.