I think if the kids are young it doesn't matter. They are learning to play as a team and picking the sports they like. I've coached and reffed a bunch of kids sports. When they are 8 and younger the difference seems to be their size. There's nothing more I hate than parents who think their kid will be the next Abby Wambach because they are a head taller than everyone else.That being said I love the commercials.