This is essentially just manners. Nearly everyone on this site does the same exact thing when one of our own is having trouble with something in their lives. What does it say about ourselves when we are distressed by other people momentarily thinking of others besides themselves, for however brief it may be? Anyway, here is some more nicely packaged social media to spread around in an attempt to let others express our feelings for us. But first, here are is my grab a quote: "I would unite with anybody to do right, and nobody to do wrong." Frederick Douglass

Perhaps this one from Douglass more closely addresses this issue: "I prayed for twenty years but received no answer until I prayed with my legs." รข€‹