Legit question John.
How does one tell the peaceable believer in Islam from the radical set?
I am sorry you and the Missus have had some less than pleasant experiences. Unfortunately human nature is human nature and some are very judgmental on appearance alone.
Nobody here is directing anything towards you or your friends.
But I cannot help what a gent from Attreya I know who was a Christian said about his friends from school who were Muslim.
"They may have been my friends and we were the best of friends, but they made it very clear they were Muslim first, everything else was secondary."







