We have these all over the place and while they don't have the same jet black coloring as the black widows I saw as a child, I've seen many different shades and variations on the internet.
We had to spend last Sunday at the emergency vet having our cat put down. We found him near death and completely paralyzed, the vet was unable to find any obvious bit marks (so not a rattlesnake) and no other injuries. We ran some simple blood work which did show very low potassium (apparently a symptom of a black widow bite). The vet said he's seen 3 or 4 over his career but usually someone saw the spider so they had a much better idea what it was.
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I'll add that my wife didn't flip it over for a picture of the abdomen, I'll go looking for another one but if anyone has any thoughts I'd like to hear them.