Poor woman. If the best thing that has ever happened to you is someone who would rather you not be around, you're not doing well.
no kidding. I wanted to reply, GTFO. Move on. Don't waste anymore time in that situation.
Sometimes people trip and fall down stairs.
Sometimes assholes push people down stairs.
That doesn't mean "stairs are bad" nor does it make someone who pushes someone down the stairs any less of an asshole.