Yikes!
Luckily, I haven't had any close calls or confrontations while armed.
I did have an incident a few years back with a thirty to forty-something year old guy who had way too much to drink.
I went out with a group of four girls and was the only guy with them. As the night was winding down near closing time, they were all sitting in a group and the guy and his friend came over and started harassing all of them to come home with him (our whole group was between 21-23).
I was getting the "rescue us" look from across the room so I walked over there and asked if there was a problem.
He said, "fuck off." Then he proceeded to keep harassing them. I stepped up to where I was angled 45 degrees to the front and right of him and calmly asked him to leave us be and we can go our separate ways.
Luckily, he was pretty wasted and I had my faculties so he telegraphed that he was throwing a haymaker with his right fist and swung it in a wide path. I was able to duck back, deflecting his swing back across his body with my left forearm. He was extended so I was able to land a solid right fist to his solar plexus and he went down hard. His friend stepped forward but security was already rushing over so he froze up.
After explaining all that had happened, apparently we weren't the only group that was being harassed by this guy that night. They hauled the guys off and (as I found out after the fact) took copies of their IDs so they could ban them from the establishment.
Since I was the only guy in the group, some of the other patrons offered to walk with us back to the car in case they regrouped outside or found some friends.
I would much prefer if that was my last incident.![]()