
Originally Posted by
Vitesse304
No offense...but keep in mind, these friends are in the business of making money. The housing market is hot, they're making lots of money, and you're just another person that is going to buy a house and they are going to profit off the transaction.
Is your realtor friend going to give up their commission? They might give up a half percent, maybe even one percent if they really like you, but they aren't working for free. And the more money you spend on the house, the more they make. That goes double for the banks. They want to give you the biggest loan they can while mitigating the risk of you defaulting. Even if you default, it's not like they're in a world of hurt since they can just take your house so they're going to approve you for more than you are probably comfortable spending.
I guess all I'm saying is just don't get your hopes up. I'm rooting for you, but in this market, you're gonna have to work twice as hard as the investors to find a property, and then twice as lucky to have the buyer accept your offer.