Please continue- I'm interested, and so is CavSct1983.I'll have to check that one out. But for this discussion....
Good questions for kids considering college. Here are some more....
Do your interests and passions center on areas taught in Trade Schools versus colleges? Cooks, plumbers, carpenters, electricians, mechanics, etc. will ALWAYS be able to find gainful employment.
If you are unsure of "just going to college because your friends are," have you considered going straight into the workforce for a year or two? Make some money. Grow up. Learn more about your lasting interests and passions. THEN maybe you'll realize college is (or isn't) for you.... (Dennis Prager notes how young people who do this are MUCH better prepared for college. They've actually experienced "the real world" more than most of their professors. They are less gullible and less influenced by the Leftism rampant in American colleges.)
Peter Drucker says (paraphrasing) most people don't know what their strengths are. (He's right.) He also points out more people know their weaknesses better than their strengths -- but adds that most of the time those people are wrong about THOSE, too(!). [Gasp!]
Don't be alarmed. There are personality profiles which can help you figure out your strengths and weaknesses. Even the ubiquitous DiSC tools are more helpful than blind shooting to determine your next courses of action. (Don't bank on Myers-Briggs. That tool is the best marketed survey out there ... and it isn't valid. Sorry, but this is what I do for a living. Ask me why if you want to know more....) Prevue, QMQ, Assess, Caliper, ProfileXT, etc. are all good tools to help you figure out more about how you're wired.
I am a grandparent -- and a high school coach. So I see this from two perspectives.
I'm astounded at how government school teachers are brainwashed that they are producing "critical thinkers," when they are not. But they truly believe they ARE.
Government education is actually indoctrination ... in Leftism. I coached in an [Get ready to "Ooh!" and "Aahhh!"] International Baccalaureate school for 13 years. What a Teachers Union stroke of genius marketing that labeling was! Those teachers and kids are told they are the best of the best. (They are not.)
These last 4 years I've coached at a Christian school. These kids are told to work their butts off and most of them do.
I'm headed into a full-blown rant, so I'd better stop. If you want to know more, ask.
I am also interested in hearing more about how Myers-Briggs is invalid, and what some of the other tests are. I don't recognize any of them!




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