Added as a seperate reply so it didn't get lost in th elast rambling.


Death has happened. Are you getting buried or cremated ? If buried where is internment, what kind of service, casket etc ?


WE went with cremation. I suggest you look in to the Neptune Society. Why? Because if you travel anywhere other than in state, they handle everything.

If you never plan to leave the estate, find a local crematory and talk with them.

Going the burial route. Start planing AND paying on it now. The last thing a family member needs to deal with after a loved ones demise is the headache as well as insane cost of a burial and or service.