Well I did a rear diff top off, Haldex fluid and filter, engine oil, and then the DSG transmission fluid change.
Rear diff was 35ml short and the dusty oily surface around the CV shafts shows it. I will do that this summer, it can keep till then. Will put together a list of part and get to it when I can.
Screwed up the dsg, need to remove the drain tube. Luckily I had extra liquid and no biggie. Trans feels better but still needs a drive to adapt.
In general fluids were dirty but not too bad, so I think this car was well maintained and not abused.
I got a second jack and with ramps and cribbing under the wheels I felt safe idling the car 6" in the air.

Next projext is the suburban front end. Close to $1k in parts but beets a new truck payment. A arms, steering, front diff seals. 2 days unless something goes pear shaped. Hope to get this done before quarantine ends and I need to drive daily.