Here is a Washington Post article about women who have transitioned into men, and weren't prepared for what it is like to be a man.
Here is the article: https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/...=.2fbf8b7aac32
If you don't want to read the article, or support the Washington Post by clicking, then here is a YouTube video of a guy reading through the article and saying the things you're thinking out loud. Oh yeah, swearing in the video.