Close
Page 1 of 4 1234 LastLast
Results 1 to 10 of 34

Hybrid View

Previous Post Previous Post   Next Post Next Post
  1. #1
    Man Whore Limited GM's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2010
    Location
    Loveland, CO
    Posts
    919

    Default Divorce question.

    For those who?ve went through a NON CONTESTED divorce in this state, were you required to provide a pretty extensive list of financial statements, property, personal item size down to tools, furs, jewelry, GUNS, etc?

    i just find it hard to believe all this would be needed in a non contested situation.
    ​"there's a smile on my face, but a demon inside"

  2. #2
    Keyboard Operation Specialist FoxtArt's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2013
    Location
    Montrose
    Posts
    2,739

    Default

    I think the better question isn't "do you have to" it is "what happens if you don't".

    And a lot of that boils down to how amicable this really all is.

    TLDR: It's not like the court reporter is going to go through your house with a clipboard. You self report, and there isn't an issue unless your future-ex spouse decides to make an issue.

    Disclaimer: Not legal advice.

  3. #3
    BIG PaPa ray1970's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2010
    Location
    Thornton
    Posts
    18,799
    Blog Entries
    1

    Default

    I went through an uncontested divorce in another state and didn?t have to do anything like that.

    It was an amicable thing and she and I actually went together to see a lawyer and had him draw everything up. I can?t remember how everything went but basically it just said that a fair and equitable splitting of the assets had been agreed upon by both parties but details weren?t included about the specifics of the assets.

    Anyhow, best of luck and hopefully everything works out for you.

  4. #4
    Man Whore Limited GM's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2010
    Location
    Loveland, CO
    Posts
    919

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by ray1970 View Post
    I went through an uncontested divorce in another state and didn?t have to do anything like that.

    It was an amicable thing and she and I actually went together to see a lawyer and had him draw everything up. I can?t remember how everything went but basically it just said that a fair and equitable splitting of the assets had been agreed upon by both parties but details weren?t included about the specifics of the assets.

    Anyhow, best of luck and hopefully everything works out for you.
    Agreed. I’ve been down this road years ago and that’s all that was done then. I just can’t believe this is SOP and required here.
    ​"there's a smile on my face, but a demon inside"

  5. #5
    Grand Master Know It All SouthPaw's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2010
    Location
    Greeley
    Posts
    3,104

    Default

    I have a very close friend of mine recently go through a non contested divorce a couple of years ago in Larmier County.

    She stated that they both had to mention MULTIPLE times that neither of them wanted half of anything and just wanted to go their separate ways. The clerk or whoever was filing the paperwork finally said "so you guys aren't fighting over ANYTHING and literally just want a divorce?!" They both responded yes and it was like one form they filled out and filed with no issues and that was the end of it.

    If you would like, I can ask her exactly how it happened and what she had to do.

    Sorry or congrats on the divorce - which ever is appropriate.
    "But when it's time to fight, you fight like you are the third monkey on the ramp to Noah's Ark; and brother, it's startin' to rain."

  6. #6
    ALWAYS TRYING HARDER Ah Pook's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2007
    Location
    Yavapai Co, AZ
    Posts
    7,533

    Default

    I have been through an "amicable" in CO. It's been a while. We split everything up and there were no lawyers involved. We went to the county building (Larimer) and told one of the clerks what we wanted to do. She gave us the appropriate paperwork and we were on our way. I think it took 6 months before we got the confirmation paperwork back.

    Good luck.


    Not legal advice.

  7. #7
    Fleeing Idaho to get IKEA Bailey Guns's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2008
    Location
    SE Oklahoma
    Posts
    16,454
    Blog Entries
    4

    Default

    Just went thru it here (I know it's not CO). I used an online service that guaranteed the paperwork would be accepted by the court. The paperwork asked for all that stuff...we just put down big stuff like cars and what would happen to the house. Gave it to the clerk and she notarized it. Judge signed it 21 days later. After it was done we even did a few things differently than what was in the agreement. Nobody cared. As far as a process goes, it was pretty simple. Hell...we're still living together until I close on my house the end of the month.
    Stella - my best girl ever.
    11/04/1994 - 12/23/2010



    Don't wanna get shot by the police?
    "Stop Resisting Arrest!"


  8. #8
    BIG PaPa ray1970's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2010
    Location
    Thornton
    Posts
    18,799
    Blog Entries
    1

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Bailey Guns View Post
    Hell...we're still living together until I close on my house the end of the month.
    Isn?t that awkward when she brings her dates home?

  9. #9
    Fleeing Idaho to get IKEA Bailey Guns's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2008
    Location
    SE Oklahoma
    Posts
    16,454
    Blog Entries
    4

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by ray1970 View Post
    Isn?t that awkward when she brings her dates home?
    For who? Me, her or the date?
    Stella - my best girl ever.
    11/04/1994 - 12/23/2010



    Don't wanna get shot by the police?
    "Stop Resisting Arrest!"


  10. #10
    Not a Dude ChickNorris's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2018
    Location
    Denver/CoS
    Posts
    11,154

    Default

    You're so bad Ray. Geez.
    My airstream has been stolen by dopers

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •