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No, and when/if I do, I feel like I'm also called out on it, which is also okay.

My point is, the guy already has kids. What value is there in telling him he shouldn't have had kids yet?

Exactly. To paraphrase the old Donald Rumsfeld comment, you have to deal with the situation you're in, not the situation you wish you were in, or the situation you could have been in if you'd done x, y and z.

But I'll also agree with Chick Norris. Forget about guns and gun laws. Really, for someone in your situation, that shouldn't even be a consideration. You have a family to support and that should be your first, last and only priority. Period.

If you have to move to a state that hates guns and get a job driving a garbage truck in order to support your family, do it. Figure out the gun thing later, when you're in a financial position to do so.