
Originally Posted by
Bailey Guns
I'm not judging you or what you do with your life. But I'm gathering from your other posts that you're about 32 years old, kind of adrift in life in not knowing exactly what you want to do, have limited finances at the present time and will soon be moving back to CO where you're going to live with your in-laws . Did I read correctly in another thread where it sounded like you were saying you used/were going to use student loan money to buy a gun?
This is just friendly advice from a guy you don't know but who's been where you are at some point in my earlier, much younger life. You need to set a course for your life before you even consider spending your limited resources on guns. I don't know of too many people who will tell you they really enjoyed their married life living with their (or her) parents...especially in their 30s. You're still young but you don't have an unlimited clock on settling into a career and life in general.
It's probably time you and your wife sat down and had a serious conversation about where you want to go with your lives and how you want to get there. I have no idea what your financial situation is aside from what you shared here and that sounds like you have limited means at the present time. I can tell you nothing will strangle your life in general and your relationship, and the ability to do things you want to do in life, like debt. That is a hard truth that many of us had to learn the hard way. Well...I did anyway. Taking on debt is the absolute worst thing you can do when you don't have a job, a house, etc... You're going to regret it.
Sit down with your wife and chart your course...your realistic course...going forward. Then start to do positive things that will allow you to get there and achieve what you've set out to do. I can tell you from personal experience you'll never get there if you have much debt at all.
Please take this advice in the spirit it's intended. I have no skin in your game...just trying to share some of life's little challenges that we've all faced at one point or another.
Good luck with whatever you do.