I would hope to have the money to private school my kids...the school system (mainly the administrators) are ridiculous. Suspending kids for being kids, that is stupid. Taking it off his record...horrible!
After columbine I was hauled into the Dean's office at my high school because I had a shaved head and was in ROTC (I later spent 7 years in active duty army/army reserve). There were too faculty members in there (they told me for safety) and they were worried I might commit a similar act and wanted to know about the guns in our home. I had never been in trouble for anything.
I ever hear about the school asking my kids questions like this, they're gonna have themselves a little lecture in rights. OURS. Along with an offer of a visit to the local courthouse to discuss it in further detail.