No, I don't want a doctrinal tussle, although that looks like exactly what you're doing. You're right, everyone has to decide for themselves what they believe is true. The Jews don't believe that the Christians are right, the non-LDS Christians don't think the Mormons are right, etc. ad nauseum. You could go for hours on this.
I agree with what you say about atheists. But that's for them to decide.
I don't push my religion on anyone. I don't mind if you're Mormon, and someone else is an atheist, and someone else is a pagan. Each to their own. I might not agree with them, but they are entitled to their opinion/view.
And if you got down to brass tacks, wouldn't you classify changing your beliefs to be trying to fit in? The Romans did a job on the early Christians to try to make them fit in, and untold numbers of them died for their beliefs. You say the Mormons abandoned polygamy so they wouldn't be "exterminated" by the Government. Now the Mormon church says they don't believe in it or accept it. So if the Muslims took over the country and started trying to exterminate the Mormons (and every other non-Muslim religion here) would the Mormons convert to Islam? I'm not trying to be contentious, I'm genuinely curious.
I was simply saying that I don't believe that Joseph Smith or Brigham Young are my prophets, and that as I understand it Mormons have differences in their beliefs such as their concept of Heaven (which is significantly different than what is in the King James Bible) as it has been explained to me by a MORMON. Doesn't mean you're wrong, doesn't mean I'm right. I'm saying your beliefs are not mine, and I don't believe they are simply a "More Modern" version. They are a different version; they are your version.
You want to lecture me on what I need to do? Go ahead. Lecture all you want; I'm fine with that. I'm not sitting here trying to make Stuart believe what I believe, or trying to please God in what I was saying. I was expressing my opinion. You have the freedom to do the same.