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  1. 06-30-2010, 14:21 #1
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    So I just found a pic of my wife's ex on a friends facebook page.... It leads my mind to wonder what she ever saw in him. He's not what I would call her "type"...

    Part of me feels angry for some of the stuff he did and part of me is curious as well. Anyone else ever have experiences like this?

    For clarification, my wife and I have known each other since we were little kids (literally) but we've both have significant others over the decades... though this is my first (and only) marriage. Her second.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BigBear View Post
    So I just found a pic of my wife's ex on a friends facebook page.... It leads my mind to wonder what she ever saw in him. He's not what I would call her "type"...

    Part of me feels angry for some of the stuff he did and part of me is curious as well. Anyone else ever have experiences like this?

    For clarification, my wife and I have known each other since we were little kids (literally) but we've both have significant others over the decades... though this is my first (and only) marriage. Her second.

    I get it. It all works out in the end though. She left him for a reason and she's with you for a reason. He ain't top shelf and you won.
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    Just let it go-it's healthier that way
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    Forgot to mention... Women look to befriend their ex's on FB because they want to show off how much better they have it now and to see what kind of dog the guy ended up with. Nothing more.
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    Quote Originally Posted by StagLefty View Post
    Just let it go-it's healthier that way
    BIG rgr on that. I won't bring it up or anything. I never met the guy and he doesn't live anywhere near us, etc, so I could care less. It was just an "interesting" moment with weird feelings...

    Quote Originally Posted by jason303 View Post
    Forgot to mention... Women look to befriend their ex's on FB because they want to show off how much better they have it now and to see what kind of dog the guy ended up with. Nothing more.
    My wife did not befriend him. She wants absolutely nothing to do with the guy. This was a found picture on one of my wive's friends page... who she doesn't even talk to anymore so I don't know why they are "friends" but that's a different topic.
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    I am in a similar situation.

    Neithor one of us worry about it.

    My feeling is that it doesn't matter who is first only who is last.

    We celebrated our 25th anniversary in March.
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    Wow, 25 huh? Congrats. I just finished my first in May. Trying to get to the family record (73) but I married too late to get that, lol...
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    Congrats on 25 years 10x - and to BB for the first...
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    Burn Notice is one of my favorite tv shows and my wife's ex is in it

    Fortunately he plays Barry the hapless money launderer rather than Michael the suave spy.

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