Shit, This isnt about trust as far as I can see.
I don't even trust my own Mother!
Probably because I know her...
Anyways, smart and polite are just about two sides of the same coin.
I took my AR to have the upper replaced... I carried, why? I am not getting shot so someone can steal my shit. And its not always about the person you are going to see either. (Didn't need it though because Marlin is a GREAT guy) You Might get stopped by someone else entirely. I go to the Mountains, carry, I go shopping, I Carry. I go fishing, I carry...
I Agree that when meeting people from the internet, you have to be careful. you never know when you are going to meet the wrong guy.
To try and spin this into a rights issue when it wasn't one was got my gander up. I had flashbacks of Family Guy again.
as far as the PTSD and Kids...
My 2 year old has been teething so long that he now qualifies as a shark. He gets his own week on Animal planet and everything.
The worst part of having PTSD and being on unemployed is you cannot afford to self medicate. Beer makes the voices quiet. More beer makes the faces go away and enough Beer make its so you really just don't give a shit anymore