Are you an Arvada Police Officer? (or any Officer) Would you PM me please?

[Glock Shooter]

Thanks all. Believe you me we have detailed all of this in the new parenting agreement: No driving our daughter by anyone unless they furnish proof of valid drivers license and auto insurance, my wife has medical and educational power of attorney, he is court ordered to be in therapy, he has to have a working cell phone while she is in his care, to avoid stressing our little girl we drive an extra 1/2 hour to pick her up rather then have him show up late on the bus, and that's just a few of them. So many things any reasonable person would just take for granted we have to spell out. All the things we had to put in about serious issues the only thing he wanted was to be notified about any haircuts she might get. I have never met a more passive aggressive hateful person in my entire life, and I grew up in NYC.

[Byte Stryke]

the only thing he wanted was to be notified about any haircuts she might get.

Sorry, WHAT?

Now this rings an entirely different set of warning bells.

[Glock Shooter]

Warning bells have been ringing for a long time. That's why we have such a great new court order, he has no wiggle room this time.

[Glock Shooter]

Didn't go well....guess the attorney's get involved tomorrow.

[Byte Stryke]

Sorry to hear that.
I wish we, as allegedly adult Human beings, could get along and resolve our differences in a manner that didn't cause financial or emotional hardships on each other.

as far as the Other waning bells, it struck me as odd that he is not concerned with grades, friends, activities or interests. He wants to be notified if she gets a Haircut?

There is something seriously creepy about that.
When was the last time your Daughter spoke with a Court officer/counselor/whatever they are called this week

[Glock Shooter]

We have had to bend over several ways to get him to come to the table. Lately we've been attending "Family Therapy" with him, but his problem is he's fine in the room but has no intentions of holding true. The therapist even had the nerve to tell me that my expectations of him might be too high, but that far worse people get visitation rights. I'm not getting upset, he can't fool me again, I knew this could happen. Now it's time for a nice lawyer letter then we're off to court later this morning to file the motion.

[steveopia]

That sucks. Good luck man.

[GhostRider]

Good luck with this one buddy, but it does sound like you are the DAD she needed her whole life.