have you talked to her about counseling.

do you think she is developing a drinking problem?


there is ALWAYS time for cheating. If you have a deep down gut feeling, and are seriously worried about it, bring it up. ask her only once and see the reaction. of course the answer is going to be NO, but see how she reacts. if it is enough to make you question more, do some investigating.

if she is in fact, that will help you a lot in the divorce.

I hate to see people get divorced, but people change, things changes, priorities change. at least in your case no kids are involved as they are truly the ones who suffer.


I also 2nd on selling anything important to you to a trusted friend and she will get 1/2 the money. I strongly support that you lawyer up. be first, strike hard and show no mercy. from all the stories I have even read, they definitely show no mercy.