no matter who you know there will always be a few freeloaders. i did not take training, instruct others, prepare the spouse and daughter what to do if needed, so others could ride my coat tails.
Everyone here has one if not more specified trait that would benefit the whole. I'm in northern CO. why would i want to hump X hours over terrain not 100% familier to me so i can meet up with others.
If you were to ask around (quietly) you would be surprised how many "like minded" people there are within walking distance of your door.
If i had to seriously bug out those plans are in place with rely points to meet others whose stopping point is the same.