
Originally Posted by
JohnTRourke
See
proves my point.
I'm the enemy just because I'm here working hard, paying taxes and getting along with my life. My choices are the same they have always been. Get along, pay taxes, go to work, etc. Never got a ticket I didn't deserve and only a couple of the cops were assholes. I don't drink, don't do drugs, not a felon, pass a background check and pay a shit ton of taxes and really almost never have any interaction with the police. And yet, my respect for the police is pretty much zero right now.
Yet I'm the enemy because of MY choices?
You might be a nice guy, but you're really missing the point. We don't hate you personally, we hate your organization and what it's become. but if you aren't willing to seperate yourself from that organization and realize that some (many) of these things that are happening are just simply wrong (perhaps even evil) then you are tarred with the same brush.
Your actions have consequences and just saying "it's my job" or "don't like the law change it" is crap, and deep down inside you know it. And yes, police have a privileged position in society and we do in fact hold them to a higher standard.
You (and clearly all the rest of the police) are not listening. Listen, don't just respond, listen to the comments here, not just from me, but from many. All gun owners (clean records), tax payers, the typical patriotic American as a whole and we're not happy with what the police now represent and in some cases (the other thread) simply don't trust the police at all.
You need us more than we need you. In fact, look at the other thread, where people say "don't ever invite the man into your life". Here's an honest upright citizen who basically is saying the police can only make your life worse, not better. That's what police now represent to what should be your biggest supporters . This is not a good thing and only the police can change it in a good way. The police only operate with the authority of the society, if you lose that social contract, then you have nothing.
BTW
Why don't cops have anything in common with "civilians", or friends with non-cops? Whose fault is that? Takes two people to be friends.
I didn't have this attitude 15 years ago, it's not me that changed. People who should be your biggest supporters are telling you something that you don't want to hear, but it doesn't make it not true.
Before you start typing, take a deep breath and go back thru this whole thread and really LISTEN to what people are saying. They are saying something that people are simply not going to present to cops because we're just "civilians" and we will be (and are) ignored. You have a real wealth of information here, real data (albeit anecdotal) that you and your "brothers in blue" really need to take consideration of. Maybe you'll decide it's all crap and the blue line is doing nothing wrong. That might even be true (although I doubt it), but perhaps you can take this information and improve both yourself personally and the police as whole. We're telling you the system is broken and it needs to be fixed, don't blame the messenger for that.