I have 2 boys. We all know what's going to happen. We all know there's nothing wrong with it as long as they're not stupid about it. To not be stupid about it, they just need to be taught how to not be stupid about it.
My wife was born and raised in Mexico. If you want to know what ignorance and lack of education about sex can lead to, she can tell you stories that will blow you away. My wife was told that she would learn about sex when she got married. Hell, when she was 8 and started her period they didn't even tell her what that was about. She thought she was dying until months down the road she found that she wasn't dead yet. She answered her curiosities thru books in the library and asking questions of teachers at school. She did not get pregnant as a teenager, she did not think it was the male who needed to take birth control pills, she did'nt deliberately get pregnant because she thought she was somehow infertal, she did not think you took one birth control pill only after having sex, she did not get pregnant and then have 1/2 the town feeling sorry for her because she told them she got pregnant by swimming in a pool that some disgusting boy must have jerked off in (yes, these are all true stories from one quite small town.)
The reason she didn't want to have sex was because she knew she didn't want to get pregnant and be as miserable as all the girls who had gotten pregnant were.
I guess that all I'm trying to say here is that education is the only cure for ignorance and stupidity. There is no cure for hormones.





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