After 13 year married and 6 years of dateing I ask my self everyday what I did so wrong to deserve this? Dateing was good, and the first 2 years of marriage was good then if it weren't for the kids I would move to phoenix and stay single the rest of my life! She sleeps constantly, won't work full time but complains when I work 2 jobs, hates to cook and clean, and could care less if I eat or am happy some guys have all the luck.