Why do they have to shove it down our throats?

[Byte Stryke]

Be a bigger person, just ignore it. Don't hang out with him again...

that's my .02

I heard a great saying once, "Assholes must advertise." You met a gay jerk. There's all sorts of jerks and there's something about it that doesn't let them be quietly jerky. Ignore & avoid him. It's a lose-lose trying to deal with such folk. You end up in a fight or you end up a jerk.

Steve

I agree with Cameron. Ask him to quiet down, have a sense of politeness. If they continue, then leave and make sure you don't do anything with them again.

^ These.

I know some G&L that would have been appalled at this. Just as not all Gun advocates are para-military anti-government wackos, not all G&Ls are loud boisterous in your face flamers.
You will find inconsiderate assholes regardless of which group you hang with.