If you consider her 2 year-old coming along as being "saddled," then she probably isn't the right lady for you.
"There are no finger prints under water."
If you are serious about her then the kid should not be a problem and should be included whether he/she comes along or you bring him/her a toy when you pick the lady up.
As for dates make it something fun more in a public scene so it isn't too awkward and don't set the bar too high or she might get pissed when the 3rd date you want steak and bj night.
Just be yourself...
And remember you're special
How is a live band better for conversation than a movie?
I have zero advice for this thread. I couldn't plan a date to save my life, or relationship.
"There are no finger prints under water."
Yeah, I guess you can at least try conversation without being sushed as well.
"There are no finger prints under water."