the only thing that's slightly affordable is a catastrophic care (high deductible)
try Cover Colorado
it's the "last choice" for Colorado (if everyone rejects you) but it turns out to be way cheaper than everyone else. (80/20, $2000 deductible) and i've had no issues in 4 years.
and it's month to month.

or other high deductible or like a Kaiser.
the male isn't the expensive part, it's the female and the kids.