Halloween confuses me...

[DawnPatrol]

I think that if a hot (make that attractive... or maybe just somewhat attractive... eh, if she had a good personality) woman told me she wanted to "tap that" i would take it as a compliment. Of course my wife would kick her a$$, which would be a win-win: I get a nice compliment and I get to watch a girl fight. Hopefully it's near a mud pit. Or a kiddie pool filled with KY Jelly. But I digress.

If there was a "like" button, I would click it. That's pretty funny!

[Ronin13]

She's 20... so it's ok, but here is the pic (drum roll please) she's on the left:

I think her costume was "Clubber girl" or something... or hippy, I'm not quite sure.

[hghclsswhitetrsh]

You really want to see pics of under age girls in slutty outfits?

Or do you want to watch Ronin drive a Zamboni?

Neither - never once was it said that they were underage, which we know now that they are not.

[Lex_Luthor]

Women want to be acknowledged as being attractive, it's that simple.

The fine line that most guys aren't aware of is that women want the compliments but they don't want to know that you want to "tap that." If Ronin just said, "Wow, looking good." She would have loved that. By saying it "gives my imagination a day off," that makes her think he has the hots for her or is fantasizing about her. Women just want the compliments, they don't want to think, "Does he want me?" "Do I like him in that way?" "He's gross and he likes me, now what do I do?" (Yes, women over think this stuff.)

I think once you add sexual connotation to the compliment, then some women are going to get huffy. They want to think that even though their skirt is short and their boobs are on display, that you really like them for their mind, or personality, or whatever. What most women forget is that men are very visual and that's what they will notice first... and then they can't think straight. ;-) And that's why women and men will never understand each other.

This. I never got women to be all huffy at me, especially when regarding a compliment to the way she looked, or what she was wearing, WHEN I WAS SINGLE. () It comes from using that filter that DawnPatrol was talking about. Regarding her outfit, saying something about how her headband makes her hair look good, that it frames her face nicely, would DEFINITELY lead to more conversation instead of causing her to shut down and stomp away. Then during the conversation, she gets to see how interesting you really are, not some drooling pig that makes her feel like she needs a shower by the things you say to her. (And not the kind with you in there with her.)

I just kept the comments about how I could take that tube top and skirt off in a single motion, using just my teeth - to myself. If she's interesting of a person enough to get to know her, then maybe I'll get to try it out. If she's a bimbo, then thanks for the conversation and eye candy. Off to find someone more interesting than you.

[Squeeze]

After what I heard about last year I'm going to the Denver Zoo for Halloween. Called the Boo at the Zoo. Heard one lady say that the moms were wearing costumes so over the top she covered her kids eyes most of the time. Wonder if it's appropriate to bring a wad of singles.

Son can see the animals and I'll watch the two legged mammals.

^ This. Big +1

[jerrymrc]

Awkward situation, but you must have some good genetics working for ya!

This was 13 so you can probably fill in the blanks. A year add makeup, a dress and her hair down.

[Elhuero]

wow, she's cute.

her friend has a bigger rack though.

bonus points for a nice tummy. point deduction for bitchy attitude and not knowing what masochistic means.

[CMP_5.56]

No, a friend posted a pic of her at a costume party last night and I made a perfectly friendly comment: "Wow, looking good, you should dress like this more often, gives my imagination a day off!" I was sincere in my compliment, no sarcasm or anything.... Then she was all pissed, even texted me and said I was a masochistic *******. You may not be a slut, but you are wearing the uniform.

Could just be q pet peeve of mine, but I hate when people don't know what the terms masochistic and sadistic mean. If anything I could see her calling you sexist, or a chauvinist. Both would have been fitting. Though still bull**** based on the compliment you gave her.

I mean admiring a woman doesn't make enjoy receiving or inflicting pain.

[Bailey Guns]

I think that if a hot (make that attractive... or maybe just somewhat attractive... eh, if she had a good personality) woman told me she wanted to "tap that" i would take it as a compliment. Of course my wife would kick her a$$, which would be a win-win: I get a nice compliment and I get to watch a girl fight. Hopefully it's near a mud pit. Or a kiddie pool filled with KY Jelly. But I digress.

You learned that from your mother's side of the family...

[mcantar18c]

Damn Ronin... sounds like you need to find some different friends.
Here's some that were posted on Facebook by friends, and they all respond well to uh... those types of comments.
(Yes, they're all over 21)