Halloween confuses me...

[Ronin13]

Your last date didn't go well?

No, a friend posted a pic of her at a costume party last night and I made a perfectly friendly comment: "Wow, looking good, you should dress like this more often, gives my imagination a day off!" I was sincere in my compliment, no sarcasm or anything.... Then she was all pissed, even texted me and said I was a masochistic *******. You may not be a slut, but you are wearing the uniform.

[cstone]

Could have been worse. You could have asked her if she changed careers.

[airborneranger]

All of the outfits for girls/women are like that and I don't get it either. I have two daughters, 11 and 9, and there was nothing appropriate for that age. It is quite ridiculous.

[Tinelement]

No, a friend posted a pic of her at a costume party last night and I made a perfectly friendly comment: "Wow, looking good, you should dress like this more often, gives my imagination a day off!" I was sincere in my compliment, no sarcasm or anything.... Then she was all pissed, even texted me and said I was a masochistic *******. You may not be a slut, but you are wearing the uniform.

Key word here!!

[Ah Pook]

Then she was all pissed, even texted me and said I was a masochistic *******. .

Shouldn't that be sadistic *******? Ask her.

[ray1970]

Would you think I was a slut if I wore a naughty nurse outfit? Probably not. So why would you assume she was?

Seriously, that is pretty funny stuff. I am definitely a fan of the "sexy" outfits unless it is a 13 year old girl wearing them. Then it makes me wonder WTF her parents were thinking letting her wear that.

[Elhuero]

Shouldn't that be sadistic *******? Ask her.

yeah, hopefully she's hot, because she's not that smart.

post the pic ronin.

[patrick0685]

yeah, hopefully she's hot, because she's not that smart.

post the pic ronin.

i was thinking the same thing...i need pics for proof

[DawnPatrol]

No, a friend posted a pic of her at a costume party last night and I made a perfectly friendly comment: "Wow, looking good, you should dress like this more often, gives my imagination a day off!"

Women want to be acknowledged as being attractive, it's that simple. It's beaten into our heads constantly that we should be sexy, skinny (yet shapely), have a pretty face, blah, blah, blah. When a woman wears something revealing (aka: slutty), yes, she's looking to get some attention or compliments.

The fine line that most guys aren't aware of is that women want the compliments but they don't want to know that you want to "tap that." If Ronin just said, "Wow, looking good." She would have loved that. By saying it "gives my imagination a day off," that makes her think he has the hots for her or is fantasizing about her. Women just want the compliments, they don't want to think, "Does he want me?" "Do I like him in that way?" "He's gross and he likes me, now what do I do?" (Yes, women over think this stuff.)

I think once you add sexual connotation to the compliment, then some women are going to get huffy. They want to think that even though their skirt is short and their boobs are on display, that you really like them for their mind, or personality, or whatever. What most women forget is that men are very visual and that's what they will notice first... and then they can't think straight. ;-) And that's why women and men will never understand each other.

On another note, I have two daughters (10 and 12) and I hate how inappropriate they make costumes for girls. This "be sexy" B.S. is beaten into their heads and such a young age.

[Irving]

About time I can post this video again.

There are 2-4 swear words in this video. Very light.