It's finally over

[tmjohnson]

Way to go!!!!!!!

[rondog]

Wow, I had no idea...but good for you!!! I'd love to be single again. We're raising the wife's grandson, and both her daughter and the boy's dad are supposed to be paying us child support, but of course neither do. Haven't for well over 10 years. He's 15 now.

I, of course, can't do shit about it, because the support judgement is for the payments to be made to my wife, not the both of us. Somehow, my name mysteriously didn't make it onto the paperwork, and I wasn't invited to the hearing. For some reason, when we filed for support, they made me and the wife each file separate claims against the daughter and the ex-boyfriend, my wife's claims were processed, mine just disappeared.

So, I'm out of it AFA the courts are concerned, although I'm the main source of support for the boy. Grrrr. And my wife won't do anything about it because "she's too busy at work to make phone calls like that", and she also has that "we don't need your f*cking money" attitude. If his dad DID get called down for back support, it would be a damn fortune, which he has no chance in hell of paying.

I'll still be calling you this weekend about that ammo.

[Sparky]

Wow, I had no idea...but good for you!!! I'd love to be single again. We're raising the wife's grandson, and both her daughter and the boy's dad are supposed to be paying us child support, but of course neither do. Haven't for well over 10 years. He's 15 now.

I, of course, can't do shit about it, because the support judgement is for the payments to be made to my wife, not the both of us. Somehow, my name mysteriously didn't make it onto the paperwork, and I wasn't invited to the hearing. For some reason, when we filed for support, they made me and the wife each file separate claims against the daughter and the ex-boyfriend, my wife's claims were processed, mine just disappeared.

So, I'm out of it AFA the courts are concerned, although I'm the main source of support for the boy. Grrrr. And my wife won't do anything about it because "she's too busy at work to make phone calls like that", and she also has that "we don't need your f*cking money" attitude. If his dad DID get called down for back support, it would be a damn fortune, which he has no chance in hell of paying.

I'll still be calling you this weekend about that ammo.

I get what's called kinship support. Basically the state pays me child support then in turn goes after mom and dad for reimbursement. May want to check that out.

[10mm-man]

I guess there are still a few fair judges left, I hope like hell they stay there for a long period of time

I got my boy when he was 8 months old, no attorney! Douglas county Judge was a female and a good advocate for the boy and I!

Way to go!

[stevelkinevil]

Mine went just the same way, however she didn't fight me and we get along. Glad to see more kids going to dads, wouldn't know what to do without my boys.

[rutz777]

I'm glad it at least went smoothly man, I've seen some horror stories

[02ducky]

Congrats, good for you for fighting for your kids too!

[Irving]

Hey, this is great to hear Josh (well, considering the circumstances). I've got an acquaintance that I think is about to get pulled through the ringer and I hope his deal turns out this well.