Here's my two cents... A big part of the 'argument/discussion' here is because of what's known as "outcome-based" decision making. It's been taught the past few decades, it's everywhere in our country now. Bottom-line is that we make choices based on the outcome of that choice. Sounds good, right? Gosh, we don't want to <fill in the outcome>, so we better not <fill in action>.
Somewhere along the line, our country adopted this 'new' way of thinking (it existed before post-modernism), and it's completely contrary to the process of decision-making that was used by our Founders.
For me, I make decisions based on what is RIGHT and WRONG. I have rights and I'll make choices based on those rights, not the perceived outcomes of exercising those rights. Look back in history and see where we'd be if our "heroes" made choices based on the outcome instead of on what's right.
As I posted in another thread about pics on FB, should we not let the sun shine today because 70 people were sunburned yesterday?
If we let the perceived outcome of our choice dictate our choices, then we're in trouble, and I'm very grateful to those in our past that did not.
Just my few tuppence...